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Get the Help You Need During Divorce with a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Collaborative divorce is a relatively new practice that sees a neutral facilitator, usually a licensed mental health practitioner, facilitating conversations between two sets of lawyers, their clients, and a financial adviser on how to divide assets and craft a timeshare agreement when children are involved. 

Having a mental health practitioner present can absorb some of the anxiety of such a tumultuous time and can more easily create pathways for supportive conversations that can be modeled by both parties in their future lives.

Let's face it, going through the courts and having a judge determine the fate of your family, your finances, and how you'll interact with your kids can not only be expensive but traumatizing.  Going through mediation might leave certain details out that a mental health practitioner can point out, such as the intricacies of how evidence-based parenting plans work.

I've had the honor of working on Collaborative Divorce cases as a neutral facilitator through a joint partnership between Nova Southeastern University's Brief Therapy Institute and Mission United, working with United States military families who were divorcing.

I've also utilized the therapy room for couples who are deciding to separate and need help processing those feelings or need guidance on how to break the news to their kids and family members.

If you're considering Collaborative Divorce local to South Florida, I'd point you in the direction of Collaborative Family Law Professionals of South Florida.

I'm presently accepting clients who need additional therapy when they've elected to go through the collaborative divorce process.  I'm also available as a child specialist who can act as your children's advocate, bringing their voices into the room when crafting timeshare agreements.

I am certified by The International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP).

Patrick M. DeCarlo is a family therapist who helps couples going through divorce effectively co-parent and discuss separation with their children.

Professional Guidance and Support Through Difficult Times

Assisting With the Divorce Process

A Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) can help you navigate the divorce process with professional guidance and support. The therapist can provide advice on what to expect legally and emotionally, helping you to make informed decisions. They can also help to identify any potential areas of conflict and assist with mediation and negotiations, helping to ensure that the transition is as smooth as possible.

Helping Your Children Through Divorce

A Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist can help your children through this difficult time and provide support and guidance as they adjust to the changes. The therapist can help your children to process their emotions, understand what is happening, and learn how to cope with the changes. They can also work with you and your family to create a plan that will help your children adjust to the new situation. A good starting place on literature related to coparenting can be found here.

Supporting You Through Divorce

The most important part of divorce is taking care of yourself. A Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist can provide you with the support and guidance you need to get through this difficult time. They can help you process your emotions, understand what is happening, and provide strategies for coping with the changes. This can help you to manage your stress and feel more confident as you move through the divorce process.